A silly place filled with caffeine induced ramblings of this person named KarmaGirl....or something.
Published on August 23, 2004 By KarmaGirl In Blogging

After much consideration, I decided to change my presence on JoeUser.  Why is that?  Because, life is too short to deal with things that you don't have to.

So, I would like everyone to meet "JavaBrain".  JavaBrain is a nickname that I used prior to becoming "KarmaGirl".  I quit using it because people always assumed that I was a male Java programmer.  (Java being for coffee, not programming).  Why is JavaBrain now important?  Because JavaBrain is now my admin alter ego.

To be clear: "KarmaGirl" is just me.  "JavaBrain" will be the admin.

When you see a post from KarmaGirl, it just me.  Not an admin.  If you don't like what I say, you don't like me, and that is fine.  Delete my comments, blacklist, do whatever you need to do.  But, if you see "JavaBrain" make a comment, it's an Admin comment, not just "my" opinion.  People can't seem to realize that I have my own opinions, so the only way this can be clear is by having to names.

So, with that, I have also decided to clear some other things up that I have let slide too long:

1) Don't email me for little things.  That means- don't email me because somebody you don't like has commented on your blog.  You have the power to blacklist or delete comments.  You don't need me to "look at it".

2) Don't ask me to visit your or a friends blog to read it and comment on it, especially if you decide to flame me afterward because what I said wasn't a glowing review.  If you ask me to look at your blog, don't expect me to.  History has shown that this a a stupid idea on my part since people seem to just like to turn my comments into a flame war if they don't agree with me.  If you really want my opinion, I'll give it to you, but it's an honest one.

3) Don't email me about "personal attacks" unless it is true.  If you email me and I look into it and it's not a real attack, you will go into my "boy who cries wolf folder" and be ignored in the future.

4) Nobody gets paid to admin this site.  Matter of fact, this site loses money, it doesn't make money.  Don't tell me that you will get me fired from JU because I said something to you.

5) In the past, I have received email over people being banned.  I was told that the "sites bottom line will suffer" if that person left.  It won't.  There isn't a "bottom line".  The site is free, therefore it doesn't have a profit.  One person will not make or break the site even if there was money involved.  People come and go all the time and the site still increases in popularity.

6) Don't ask me to feature your article.

You won't see many comments from "JavaBrain".  People take admins too seriously (except for when they should, for some reason).  I simply don't want to deal with it anymore.  I'm an admin to help the site- that's it.  I don't get paid for doing it.  I don't get some power trip from it.  I admin other sites that actually make money, so in reality, I should be spending *very* little time here and more time at those sites if all I was concerned about was money.  So, don't send me hate mail.  I won't read it.  If you don't like me, blacklist me.  I don't care.  This is a blog site.  It's meant for sharing thoughts and opinions.  Not all those thoughts and opinions will agree.  If you get upset over what a stranger says to you, then you need to rethink why you write at all.

So, KarmaGirl is just an average user.  But, if you see "JavaBrain" comment, please pay attention.

Peace and happy blogging.


Comments (Page 2)
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on Aug 24, 2004
Jay Walker, I think you missed the point of this entirely.
on Aug 25, 2004
I think its a good idea, actually, because as i mentioned to you on another thread, "karmagirl" was held to a higher standard just because she was a moderator, and as such, couldnt really participate like the rest of us...lest her personal opinions be interpreted as critisism from the administration.


karma, i am glad that sabrina expressed this, as i am fairly certain that i am the guilty party above, and it has been on my mind. i re-read the comments of yours that led to me me over-reacting, and sabrina is right.

i do apologise for contributing to your feeling this way. i did view you as 'the administration', as sabrina said, and i did take what you said to heart. that is a poor reflection on me, though, not you. i actually have made some small formatting changes for my 'non-fiction' articles, as i feel these could be clearer, particularly where 'facts' are concerned, so i should actually say thanks for the advice.

i'd like to echo the comments above in that you do do a very good job here, and it does seem to be a thankless task. so, thankyou from me.

vanessa/mig XX
on Aug 25, 2004

i do apologise for contributing to your feeling this way.


No need to apologize.  This change was a long time coming.  I think that people won't take me so seriously now (as they shouldn't) so I shouldn't stress people out.  On the plus side, since this happened, at least you did find out that you perfectly fit in here, so you don't need to worry about that.  Everything in life happens for a reason, you just usually don't know why until later.

on Aug 25, 2004
Either way...I still enjoy your opinions and posts...No matter what screen name ya use
on Aug 25, 2004
No need to apologize


you're very kind. thankyou. i mean that.

This change was a long time coming. I think that people won't take me so seriously now (as they shouldn't) so I shouldn't stress people out


karma, i was just thinking back to a time when i got promoted internally and had to supervise a (very small number) of people i'd been on a 'level playing field' with before, and who had all applied for the job along with me. within weeks their whole way of relating to me changed and i really didn't like it, so i should have known better than to mistake the 'blogger' for the 'admin' with you. i never learn, i really don't. .

On the plus side, since this happened, at least you did find out that you perfectly fit in here, so you don't need to worry about that. Everything in life happens for a reason, you just usually don't know why until later.


i think i may begin to subscribe to this 'karma' theory ... even an old cynic like me can see the benefits of looking at life your way, karma.

vanessa/mig XX
on Aug 26, 2004

That's a good idea. Although I've never been a moderator, I know how stressful it can be. I know if I were in a position of authority, I'd separate my personal self with my professional self as much as possible, and act as if they weren't ever the same person.


Your alter ego name really makes me want to go to Starbucks though.


5) In the past, I have received email over people being banned. I was told that the "sites bottom line will suffer" if that person left. It won't. There isn't a "bottom line". The site is free, therefore it doesn't have a profit. One person will not make or break the site even if there was money involved. People come and go all the time and the site still increases in popularity.


Even if it was Brad? (Just kidding, I know you were referring to the peasants. )

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