My daughter is one of the youngest in her grade. She is in 1st grade
and won't be 6 until the end of October. Last year, during Kindergarten
round up, the Principal strongly suggested that we put her in early 5's instead
of kindergarten. I refused because she had already been in Parents as
Teachers, 3 year-old preschool and 4 year-old preschool (which was taught at
the school by one of the Kindergarten teachers). The teacher from 4
year-old preschool said that she was more than ready to go to school the next
year.
Well, being new to the area, I had no idea about the teachers. My
daughter was placed in the least favorite teacher's classroom. the only
feedback I really got from my daughter was that he teacher "yells a lot" (not a
good sign). This teacher basically told me from day one, without even
testing my child, that she would have to be held back. The last conference
of the year, she sent me a note saying that we needed to meet to "talk about
next year", so I made the meeting time. The day before this meeting, the
teacher called and said that she finally tested my daughter, and she was shocked
because she tested way higher than she expected. I felt like saying "just
think how well she would have done if you wouldn't have written her off in the
beginning"?
So, now she is in first grade. We went to orientation and she is the
youngest and smallest child in her class. The little boys love her
(great). Anyway, her teacher said that my daughter is "quiet" (wish that
were true at home) and they were going to test her and see what she could
do. At first I thought "great, another year of this". But, to my
pleasant surprise, I was sent home a report on her "literature" skills. She
had scored a perfect 100%. The next week I received a letter asking
permission to enter her in their Literature program, which is for the kids who
scored the best. Yay! And, my daughter is so excited because she
gets *more* work than the other kids (guess she hasn't figured that one out yet)
and she gets different books and goes to the library more.
It makes me happy that they didn't write her off this year. My daughter
has always loved stories and books and has been trying so hard to learn how to
read and spell. She has memorized about 50+ books that she has, and has a
membership to our city library. Hopefully this one step will keep her
ahead in the game and will keep future teachers from letting her fall in the
gaps.