Most people have a vice. Be it smoking, drinking, drugs, or indulging in something they know that they shouldn't.
I have a few, and I know that they are bad for me, yet I find them so hard to give up. My two large ones are dairy (especially cheese) and coffee. Many people will say: "Those aren't bad like alcohol and drugs!" But, to some people, it is.
I have some health issues that I *know* are aggravated by these two food (or drink) choices. Yet, I am addicted to them. Coffee = comfort to me. Anyone who knows me well knows that I am a pure and simple coffee addict. I have been told several times that coffee (not just the caffeine, but the chemicals in it) have been proved in many studies to aggravates a couple of my health issues. Does that stop me from drinking it? No. Did it make me cut down? No.
Same is with dairy. Dairy has been sown to be a cause for flares in autoimmune diseases. Considering that I have three (Lupus, RA, and Fibromyalgia) you wouldn't think that dairy would have been given up and that I'd be living a dairy free life. have I? Nope. I love cheese, and I like a splash of milk in my coffee. Now, I know that consuming dairy is really pretty unnatural (which is probably why there are are between 30 and 50 million Americans who are lactose intolerant, and why there are other dairy allergies). I mean, why would we be different from any other animal in needing milk after we were weened? But, I digress......
I have decided that this year I am giving up my vices along with the few teaspoons of sugar I use in my coffee (no coffee, no sugar, right?) I like tea, and can drink it plain. Green and white tea have great health benefits, so that should be good. I plan to have coffee as a "treat" now an then, but not have it every day, and not in the quantities that I currently drink.
And, I am going to give up dairy. I like soy milk (especially strawberry Silk- it's like liquid candy). But.....cheese. Cheese is going to be hard. Since I have resolved to stick with my vegetarian eating and give up all meat (including fish), giving up cheese will take some time. I will need to come up with new recipes, since a lot of vegetarian (not vegan) recipes that I have use cheese. I figure that it will take half a year to give it up.
I have already started on my plan. I had one cup of coffee yesterday, and one today (morning Joe). I only had 1tsp of sugar in my coffee this morning and no milk. I have had no cheese in 3 days, but I am having withdrawals. All I can think about is that block of parmesano reggiano in my refrigerator, or that container or gorgonzola that would be so nice on my salad with some walnuts, dried cherries and raspberry dressing. But, I must resist! I need to do this for my health.
But...it will be hard. I don't drink anymore. I don't smoke or take any drugs other than my prescriptions. So, cheese and coffee were it.
Anyone else have something that they know they should give up but are having a hard time at?