I have been watching too much TV lately (been home recovering from surgery).  I have this odd fascination with the shows that discuss divorces.  I really don't understand divorce, so I guess I keep trying to figure out why it happens so very often.  The statement that I hear most is "he/she is not the man/woman that I married".  I think to myself, "really?  Like you are the person that *they* married?" My husband is not the man I married.  I am not the woman...